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Friday, October 7, 2011
Finland's Baby Box
I saw this and it brought tears to my eyes. In Finland every baby gets just a few essentials from the government. And while I know that I probably wouldn't have needed it, I received 35 green bodysuits at my baby shower from enthusiastic family and friends, the idea of a country and and a culture that starts out every life with a gift is something special. There is much debate about an the American welfare state on one hand, and even if a woman should be able to have an abortion. I can't settle this debate here, but reading about this made me cry. What if every child entered this life know that everyone was looking out for him or her, and wanted to make sure that their first few months were at least warm and safe? Even the box it comes in can double as a bassinet. Its just the basic hospitality that we could give a new life. Most of us have friends or families that do that, or at least the wealth the buy the odd blanket or diaper.
I feel like the Finnish people fully expect each infant recipient of this grant to become and law abiding productive member of society, and imagine that there is the belief that it is the child parents that are held most responsible for this. But why not start off with a well thought out gift that says, "Hey, this is what you might need to get started; we're pulling for your success." I got a letter stating that my insurance company was charged $2,000 for an anesthesiologist that I never saw. I felt that our system, and my culture were saying, "Congratulations, you had a baby, now its easier for us to scam you. Now back to work." I think we can do that a bit better, and make stronger families and healthier happier children in the end. Its not really about being the "nanny state", it's about investing in the lives of one another.
This is what you'd find in the what's called the Maternity Package can be found here. What did you get from you're society when you had a baby?
Finland's Baby Box
2011-10-07T10:25:00-04:00
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Monday, September 29, 2008
Another First
Well it happened. In the life of most children it will happen. We had to take Kiran to the Emergency Room last night. He fell and busted the inside of his lip. I wasn't there when it happened so of course Greg felt really guilty. I know it just bound to happen, and this was really minor, just one (or maybe two) stitches, and a Tetanus shot (which really hurt). The nurses at children we wonderful, and very understanding and compassionate to his pain and upset. The only thing that baffled me was that they wouldn't let me nurse him. I mean it was so upset, and I always imagined that I'd be able to nurse him through this something like this. But a strict "no feeding" policy applies to that too. So for the entire time while we were waiting to be stitched Kiran was just begging for "nummies". That was very stressful for both of us. When we got home he just crashed, he even slept in a bit today, but even through the puffiness and slight bruising it looks so much better now. Knowing the general resilience of kids, and Kiran's good humor I know he'll be "all better" very soon.
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2008-09-29T10:04:00-04:00
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